trying to muster up the energy to make a chickpea curry
on one hand… really want…………. on other hand………………………… don’t want to get out of chair…………………………………….
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hellbentforleather said: ughhh ME TOO but trust me you will feel better with the anxiety of calling someone on their shit than the guilt of letting it slide
thank you i needed to hear that :* :* :*
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ojirawel said: I called someone out on sexism this morning and they haven’t responded and I could delete my comment so they don’t see it? but then I’m a coward. but uadgjl. But it was ~sexist~. *support through similar circumstance*
urgh i feel u. life is hard. don’t delete the comment because then you’ll be like ‘why did i do that????’ afterwards. stand strong \m/
the guy i called out actually inboxed me after saying ‘im actually really sorry’ which was lovely and then i was like it’s chill here are my reasons for not being super ok with that sort of rape joke (side note: i don’t think anything is off limits when it comes to comedy necessarily but it takes a lot of skill and compassion to make a funny rape joke) but then he didn’t reply and i’m worried that him and his group of friends inc. my bf will just see me as the fun-ruining feminist :( when actually i’m a fun enhancing feminist :(
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